Sunday, June 20, 2010

How to deal with a tough mother that wants to control/choose her 14 year old daughters' Hair fo

if your mom would come every school morning,with a brush %26amp; comb in her hand,and a couple of elastics,to do your hair in high ponytails or 2 French braids,as something mandatory,how would you deal with it ??



How to deal with a tough mother that wants to control/choose her 14 year old daughters' Hair for school ????

tell her that u r old enough to do ur own hair



How to deal with a tough mother that wants to control/choose her 14 year old daughters' Hair for school ????

I know! I have to deal with the same exact situation! Just do your hair yourself first, and when she try to do yours, tell her that you don't want french braids. It's the only way.



How to deal with a tough mother that wants to control/choose her 14 year old daughters' Hair for school ????

I'll let her do it and have it her way, and then once out of the house, redo my hair the way i want to. It's simple, that way everyone is happy:-D and i will remain the good daughter.



How to deal with a tough mother that wants to control/choose her 14 year old daughters' Hair for school ????

if she controls your hair now she'll try to control your life for the next 4 years...rebel....tell her to go to get lost, she giving you a little kids hairstyle



How to deal with a tough mother that wants to control/choose her 14 year old daughters' Hair for school ????

next time you go for a haircut.. get it cut short enough she cant do it anymore.



How to deal with a tough mother that wants to control/choose her 14 year old daughters' Hair for school ????

I think it is great when mom's spend a lot of time doing their daughter's hair.



If I ever have a daughter, plan to do her hair every day in braids.



How to deal with a tough mother that wants to control/choose her 14 year old daughters' Hair for school ????

I would definitely not like it. Even if you are only 14, you still should be able to pick your own hair style, for God's sake.



How to deal with a tough mother that wants to control/choose her 14 year old daughters' Hair for school ????

I would talk to her about it and then do some styles on the weekend. She will see your taste and maybe like it and back off. I waited for my daughter to want to do her hair ;-b all the way through high school, not everyday, but very often . A little independence would have been nice, but then who would she have to blame if it doesn't turn out well. I took more pressure that I needed to. Your mom doesn't realize how lucky she is that her daughter is growing up and doing her own hair grooming : ) I would be proud of you



How to deal with a tough mother that wants to control/choose her 14 year old daughters' Hair for school ????

well I would tell my mom that I am old enough to do my hair, and that I am not a little girl, or a doll so she can do my hair.



How to deal with a tough mother that wants to control/choose her 14 year old daughters' Hair for school ????

Well i would worry. Firstly i am a man and secondly i am 39 so i would call her a doctor. But seriously i would maybe make up a story like 'people making fun of me at school calling me a baby and pulling my braids -i couldn't see who it is cause they do it from behind my back so i can't tell you who it is but it upsets me so much. Can i try myself today, if you show me how to do it at least i can say i did it myself and if you want you can do it at the weekends instead.' If that doesn't work- Get A Brittany - just kidding.



How to deal with a tough mother that wants to control/choose her 14 year old daughters' Hair for school ????

Just let her do it



How to deal with a tough mother that wants to control/choose her 14 year old daughters' Hair for school ????

I would say Mom you are going to far and she is not giving you the space . I would have a chat with her and be cool when you do . I can feel how this could embarrassing to you .



How to deal with a tough mother that wants to control/choose her 14 year old daughters' Hair for school ????

talk to her, now a days a mother who still wants to take time to do her 14 yr olds hair is rare now a days. she seems to think that they are close,so i would tell her it bugs me

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