So confused please give me ur advice..?

mi boyfriend %26amp; i have been together for 7 months. im 17, hes 20. i love him with everything i have.he is mi world. after him there is noone i have nothing.

he treats me right. but ive been finding msgs %26amp; recieved calls from a chic he knows. i know her to. shes a skank. im not just saying that coz of what she is doing. im saying it because thats who she is. yes so i know he talks to her. he tries %26amp; hides it by deleting msgs but im not stupid. this really bothers me. i think about it all the time.

but theres a problem, i carnt talk about with him, if anything goes against him , instead of talking he runs awy from it.

so talking is normaly out of the question.

i dont want to lose him . i love him. but

last nite i was making hes bed %26amp; i found a hair comb thingy with a bow , in between hes bed and wall. there was also a jumper. what do you thinks going on %26amp; what should i do?.

So confused please give me ur advice..?

well, first off, we never should make a guy our everything, because if they don't think the same way, then they don't deserve us.

Based on what you've written, there's a problem. He shouldn't run away from problems facing him. What would happen if you both face a dilemma and he runs away, deserting and having you face the world by yourself?

I feel you, but in a way, he never thought about how you felt. He's in a relationship, so he shouldn't be infidel. You have every right to question his actions relating to that. If he doesn't want to talk about it by brushing it off, he's disrespecting you, and you don't need to take any of that.

I don't quite know what's going on, but I do know that he's hiding something, and big. As much as you hate to lose him, would you want to be with a guy that you feel compressed in and unable to voice yourself?

Say what you feel. If love is still around, this can be solved by communication, as much as you hate it, there isn't a better way...

hope this helps.

So confused please give me ur advice..?

he had another girl

So confused please give me ur advice..?

Lose him. He is not worth your time. Find someone who really cares about you and respects you.

So confused please give me ur advice..?

you've been played, leave him. he's a loser with no respect for you.

So confused please give me ur advice..?

Relationships are not built on lust and puppy love. There are people you date and people you marry. THEY ARE NOT ALWAYS THE SAME PEOPLE.

Basically you need to ask yourself if you can put up with this crap for a lifetime because expecting or demanding him to ever change is unfair to him and will be disappointing to you.

If he is doing things to you that you would not do to him then it won't work unless you are willing to tolerate this stuff.

So confused please give me ur advice..?

If you found things some girl has been in his bed,now is that the way you want to date this guy,untrustful and a lier,you cound never be happy with this guy no matter what now so move on to someone that you can trust.

So confused please give me ur advice..?

okay stop .........this reminds me of a relationship i had ,everthing was good till this girl named heather started calling him.and oh yes she was also a skank.but he told me oh she is a friend but he was alwayes talking to her ...she would call,they would go out and have coffee.well i tryed not to be worried about it but she was the reason why we broke up and to come to find out he was sleeping with her.if a guy is cheating you will feel it ,its a girl thing i think we have a radar.my advice talk to him and tell him you don't like whats going on and stop it before you end up like i did....and if he is cheating well dump him *** you will be just fine ................